It wasn't until I realized that I didn't want a relationship that I saw how emotionally un-ready I was for one... and looking back at my relationships, the signs are obvious
For the record, my credibility comes from being a girl who has tried to get into multiple relationships in the past year until ultimately realizing I was NOT mentally ready for a relationship.
1. Dates Give You Anxiety
Dating should be fun. Should you be nervous? Probably. I would be scared of you if you weren’t nervous for a first date.
But you shouldn’t be dreading it.
I realized I wasn’t ready for a relationship when I was in my car on my way to a date and felt like I was about to have a panic attack. My heart was racing and I kept thinking I should just go home. I didn’t.
But I was timid the whole time and couldn’t wait to leave. Since then, I have had NO desire to go on a date with anyone. If this sounds like you, you're not ready for a relationship.
2. LOOKING For Red Flags
If you're on a date with someone, or just talking to them, and you hyper analyze everything they do - you’re just looking for red flags.