Pleasure can sometimes speak louder than words...
Sometimes it’s so fucking good it makes you scream. Other times you’re left wondering, “Is that it?”
OR they were a virgin.
KIDDING! Kinda. But in all seriousness, someone into BDSM probably wouldn’t enjoy fucking someone who thinks doggy is scary. They just don’t understand pleasure in the same language.
Yet, everyone starts somewhere, and many people, mostly women, find it VERY hard to find pleasure in sex at all. Some females weren’t blessed (or cursed… not sure which one) with the sex drive of a fifteen-year-old boy.
So nothing is wrong with you if for some reason you CANNOT get into it when he’s in(to) you. Or if she’s ridin’ and vibin’ and you’re 10 seconds from going limp.
But don’t lose hope in your sex life just yet.
A psychologist, Gary Chapman, came up with the idea of the five love languages:
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service