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Should You Give Him A Redo?

With so much going on during this pandemic, leave your dating worries to me!

“There’s this guy. We had sex once, two years ago. Right after he was sweet, made my bed, left a note, all the movie shit, but it got complicated. Clinic type complicated. We didn’t talk for a year. Out of nowhere, he reached out to me a few months ago wanting to get to know me. Wanting a redo? So, we’ve been talking for a few months, but talk every single day. We only went on one date though, that I initiated. There’s no mention of seeing each other again even though he knows I’m interested. He’s also trying to move out right now, maybe relevant… We still talked on Valentine’s Day but simply ignored the day. Am I wasting my time, is he just shy, or could this actually turn into a relationship?”

This seems like a very complex situation you have found yourself in, my friend.

It's hard for me to tell what this guy’s intentions are because part of me thinks that he could be leading you on, but the other part of me feels like he might be playing hard to get.

It seems like this guy is sweet and has the capability to start a real emotional relationship based on the things you mentioned he did after you first got together.

For a guy to make the bed after a hookup says a lot.

Source: Wix GIF

Also, let's address this note... so he basically had sex with you once then wrote you a love letter? #keeper?