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When Should You Let Them Back Into Your Life?

A person can be in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.


For most of my life, I’ve been the type of gal who wears their heart on their sleeve. It didn’t matter how much someone hurt me, I always forgave them regardless of the situation.

Sophomore year of college I lost my two closest friends. I thought the world was ending. I was miserable without them, staying up late crying, asking the universe why I was alone. My mom had always taught if you love someone set them free if they come back it was meant to be. So, that’s exactly what I did.

After a few months, they both separately reached out exclaiming that they wanted to talk about the situation that happened between us.

I was afraid. I didn’t know if I was ready to let people back into my life after we had hurt each other so much. But I did and it was the best decision I’ve ever made.

Letting someone back into your life can make you vulnerable and it’s scary, but it can also be beautiful.

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