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What If You Don’t Speak One of the Big Five Love Languages?

Bullying. Memes. "The Jim Look.” What do these all have in common? Each are different ways you show your partner how much you love them.


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Have you heard of the five basic love languages? Defined in a 1992 book by Gary Chapman, love languages are basically ways that you express and experience love in a relationship. Now, originally, Chapman pinned it down to these main five languages.


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However, after almost thirty years, a lot of people believe that there are more than just those five. (Also, some have even