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I Did A Bumble Experiment and It Went Like This...

Here are the 5 openers that I used to secure dates during our first conversations.

1. Use an intriguing statement

We all know that saying “hi” with a cute smiley face is boring. Sure, sometimes you’ll get a response, but why leave it to chance?

Saying something more mysterious like, “I have to tell you a secret…” is a much better hook. I guarantee that 99.9% of people would respond to that message because it’s interesting.

When you follow that up with something like, “I’m a mind reader” you’re prompting their next response, which will set up yours. This is where you plant the idea of the date. And there you have it…


2. Be Bold