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11 Non-Sexual Things That Make You Feel Sexy

Let's bring sexy back. It's time to ditch thirst traps and looking for double-takes. That feeling of sexy comes in different ways and we need to explore them. Why rely on other people to make you feel sexy when you can do it yourself?


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For me, sexiness is basically the same thing as confidence. Confidence wins people over more than an ass ever will. Owning a room is one of the sexiest things a person can do. I am not getting my usual fix. So here are some ways I boost myself up because nobody is checking me out. Making yourself feel sexy gives YOU control and you're not relying on randomers liking your photos for subconscious approval.


For the most part, being sexy is about having your shit somewhat together.

There's a reason it's called a hot mess instead of a sexy mess.


Hot is girl-next-door.
Sexiness is the girl in your door.

You see, feeling sexy isn't as complicated as you may think. In order to be sexy, you just have to feel sexy. It's that simple! This feeling of sexiness can come from a multitude of ways that aren't sexual. And that all depends upon YOU and what makes YOU feel good. Since sexiness doesn't always involve sex, here are a few nonsexual things that can help you feel sexy, confident, and powerful.